Words Have Power.

One of my biggest pet peeves: People who are unaware of their surroundings and the people they are interacting with. 

You know what happens when people are unaware? They say things that hurt.  

I'm naturally more quiet and observant in groups and I try to be pretty careful of what I say. It's important to me that I'm adding to the group conversation in a positive way. I never want to say something that would offend or be inappropriate. In order to do this, I listen. Pay attention to nonverbal and verbal cues. Once I'm comfortable, I will add to the conversation. 

The main reason I do this is because I've learned, through my own experiences and by observation, that words have power. Words that are said carelessly can do a number of things. They can make someone feel less than (i.e. less than worthy, less than capable, etc.). Ignorant remarks can open wounds. They can add to shameful feelings. Ignorant remarks can divide. And isolate. 

Let me just say this: Not everyone has grown up the same way you have. Not everyone has the same standards that you do.  Not everyone has made the same choices in life that you have. Not everyone has been treated fairly by family members or friends. 

I never want to be responsible for hurting someone with my thoughtless words. I've been challenged to be more attentive to the emotions of others. To be an uplifting, truthful, encouraging voice. To be more intentional with the words I say. 

There are thousands of voices out there for us to listen to. I challenge you to be a life-giving voice. A voice that stands out among the rest.