Words Have Power.

One of my biggest pet peeves: People who are unaware of their surroundings and the people they are interacting with. 

You know what happens when people are unaware? They say things that hurt.  

I'm naturally more quiet and observant in groups and I try to be pretty careful of what I say. It's important to me that I'm adding to the group conversation in a positive way. I never want to say something that would offend or be inappropriate. In order to do this, I listen. Pay attention to nonverbal and verbal cues. Once I'm comfortable, I will add to the conversation. 

The main reason I do this is because I've learned, through my own experiences and by observation, that words have power. Words that are said carelessly can do a number of things. They can make someone feel less than (i.e. less than worthy, less than capable, etc.). Ignorant remarks can open wounds. They can add to shameful feelings. Ignorant remarks can divide. And isolate. 

Let me just say this: Not everyone has grown up the same way you have. Not everyone has the same standards that you do.  Not everyone has made the same choices in life that you have. Not everyone has been treated fairly by family members or friends. 

I never want to be responsible for hurting someone with my thoughtless words. I've been challenged to be more attentive to the emotions of others. To be an uplifting, truthful, encouraging voice. To be more intentional with the words I say. 

There are thousands of voices out there for us to listen to. I challenge you to be a life-giving voice. A voice that stands out among the rest.

Current Thoughts.

• Just because you get older in age doesn’t mean you are suddenly confident in who you are.
• People are mostly selfish. It takes effort to ignore the longings and impulses of our flesh.
• Loving=Risking
• Sometimes it’s just about making it through the day in one piece. Heck, maybe just the next hour. Or minute.
• Victory. Freedom. Strength. Are all found in Christ.
• Life goes on.
• I’m only human. It’s okay to act like one.
• With that said, people will let you down. Change their minds. And hurt you. They will also surprise you. Inspire you.
• I’m convinced it’s when we feel least prepared or ready for something that God throws it our way. I guess it is the perfect way to keep us relying on Him at all times.
• No one is a lost cause. I am included in that statement. 
• Usually, the process is worth far more than the end result. 
• We are all capable people. Belief in that is the issue.
• I'm stronger than I thought I was.